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Kill Your Television |
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Is your TV set trying to
sabotage you? or, Are you choosing to fail? |
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The National
Weight Control Registry, is a registry of over 4000 people who have lost weight
and kept it off at least a year. One of the features common to the
vast majority of individuals in the registry is that they all included regular
exercise and increased activity levels as one of the important components to
their success. |
Imagine for a moment, a
person who is trying their hardest not to think of clowns. Imagine further that
they are sitting ringside at the circus. Of course this is a pretty silly
hypothetical situation. If a person really didn't want to think of clowns, they
would never choose to go to the circus.
Now imagine you are trying to
recover from years of binge eating and extreme obesity. You want to recover
because you are unhappy and your health is seriously jeopardized. Now imagine
you are sitting in front of a television watching picture after picture of
delicious foods. Imagine that they are being presented in ways designed
specifically to entice you into buying and eating them. Sadly, this is not such
a silly hypothetical situation. It's exactly what I was doing to myself on a
daily basis.
Television programming is
saturated with marketing for fast foods, junk food, sugary drinks, and highly
processed convenience foods. Very few commercial breaks are free of
advertisements for food and drink. Many are nothing more than a series of
commercials for food. Manufacturers even pay to have their products seen within
the programming itself. Television is a medium whereby advertisers can bombard
the market (you and I) with messages tempting us to use their products.
Sometimes in obvious ways, and sometimes in ways that aren't so obvious.
"Television ... is a medium of entertainment
which permits millions of people
to listen to the same joke at the same time, and yet remain lonesome."
~~ T. S. Eliot
A classic time that
people with compulsive eating disorders have problems with cravings and binging is in the evening.
But what do most of us do in the evening? We watch TV. I use to sit and watch TV almost every evening,
all evening. Try
counting the number of times food is advertised the next time you are watching
your favorite show. How many times was food advertised? How many
times was the same advertisement repeated?
Advertisers know that when we
are watching TV,
our bodies (and our minds) are basically inactive. Our eyes don't have to
travel far in their sockets. We stare straight forward as the images and sounds
are shoved toward us. There's little to distract our attention from the screen.
Most programs are stories, while enjoyable, they are not particularly thought
provoking. Essentially, when we are sitting and watching the TV, we've turned off our minds to some
degree. This puts us in a very vulnerable position. We are positioned physically
and emotionally in about the best way possible to be subject to the enticing
images and clever sales pitches. They are meant to make our mouths water and
trigger our hunger signals.
"The principle contributor to loneliness in this country is television. What happens is that the family
gets together, alone."
~~ Ashley Montagu
Consider the classic image of
a hypnotist. He gets a person to focus on a shiny watch while he speaks in a
pleasing voice. He directs the subjects attention to the watch and then uses the
power of suggestion to manipulate their will. Think about that in the context of
television advertising. Think about that in the context of trying to not obsess
about food and eating.
What length are you really willing to go to change your life? Perhaps in the
early days of recovery you could rent videos to escape the commercials. You might try blocking out the
commercial channels that are funded by advertisements if your system is capable
of that. You might try taping your favorite shows and watching them only when
you are among supportive friends. Better yet, consider reading a book or working
on a
hobby in the evenings. Take an evening walk. Get active. You don't have to
spend time in front of the TV set each evening.
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About Dave - Welcome
- F.A.Q. - Frequently Asked
Questions
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Milestones
1
- Reflections on various stages of my recovery journey.
4/18/03 - 7/25/03
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Milestones 2
- Reflections on various stages of my recovery journey.
8/02/03 - 3/21/04
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Milestones 3
- Reflections on various stages of my recovery journey.
5/2/04 - 11/01/04
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Milestones 4
- Reflections on various stages of my recovery journey.
11/2/04 -
3/27/05
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Milestones 5
- Reflections on various stages of my recovery journey.
3/28/05 - 8/9/06
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Milestones 6
- Reflections on various stages of my recovery journey.
8/10/06 -
12/10/07
- Milestones 7
- Reflections on various stages of my recovery journey.
1/14/08 -
Present
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Chart 1 - Weight, Blood Pressure, Progress Chart.
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Chart 2 - Weight, Blood Pressure, Progress Chart.
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Chart 3 - Weight, Blood Pressure, Progress Chart.
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Chart 4 - Weight, Blood Pressure, Progress Chart.
current
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Cholesterol Chart
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Doughnut Epiphany
- A powerful personal experience on the way to a binge
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Changes - Before and After.
4/18/03 at 450 lbs.
to 8/14/04 at 291 lbs., and from 8/14/04 to 5/29/05
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Pictures
- Dave's Food Plan
Food Plan - What works for me
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Dave's Book List - Books I consider legitimate and personally very useful
- A Healthy Diet? - Eating to improve health and lower
risk factors for disease
- Exercise - Increasing activity levels—an
essential component of recovery.
- Fruits & Vegetables
- Why they are important to well-being and maintaining a
healthy weight
Grains
- Why Whole Grains are important to well-being and maintaining a
healthy weight
- Meat,
Fish, & Fowl - Beans Nuts and Tofu too
- Fats
& Oils - The good, the bad, and the ugly
- Omega-3, Flaxseed
& Fish Oil A healthier balance of essential
fatty acids
- Fad
diets, expensive supplements, and weight loss pills
- Snake oil or useful tools?
- Low
Carb? - Should we be counting carbs? Why all the
hype?
- Salt, Sodium, and Canned Green Beans
- Reducing sodium can
help control hypertension
- Typical Day - What
Dave eats on a typical day
- Food Products - Food
products that Dave has found to be healthy and tasty.
- Abstinence - Dave's thoughts on abstinence in
Overeaters Anonymous
- All or Nothing Thinking - A roadblock to
recovery
- Binge Eating Disorder (BED) - Description and diagnostic criterion
- Body
Mass Index - What it is and handy calculator
- Bariatric Surgery - Considering a
surgical solution to clinically severe obesity
- Food and Spirituality - Mindfully aware
eating
- Getting Started - Going from, I'll start
tomorrow to, I started today
- Intuitive Eating - Listening to the body's
hunger and satiety signals
- Killing the TV set - Is your TV set trying to sabotage you?
- Lifestyle not Diet - More on recovery. Dave
answers a friends questions
- OA Update - 2004 update on Dave's thinking about
recovery in OA as it applies to BED
- Passion & Hobbies - Finding things to get passionate about besides food
- Perfectionism - and perfectionistic thinking.
A common roadblock to recovery
- The Scale - Problems with weighing too often and
other ways to mark progress
- Yo-Yo Dieting - This vicious cycle is part of
the problem
- Letters Section -
Articles and Letters I've written over time about recovery and life.
- Key Concepts of
Recovery - 12 key concepts that helped Dave recover from Binge Eating
Disorder
- UnTwisted Thinking - Changing
the automatic thoughts we tell ourselves
- Overeaters Anonymous - This section is no longer
supported. It's still here for those who may find it useful
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