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Mental Filter

You dwell on the negatives and ignore the positives

Cognitive Distortions

When you are using Mental Filtering you tend to screen out the positive aspects about yourself, what you do, or other people, focusing only on the negative.

 

Unrealistic or twisted thoughts Realistic, untwisted responses
"I gained a pound this week. It's pointless. I'm only getting fatter and fatter." "Gaining one pound may just be water weight. It's only one pound and I did lose 6 pounds last month."
"My sponsor turned out to be a dud. My whole program stinks. Nothing ever works out right. "My sponsor is in relapse, that's not my fault. She did help me get through my first few weeks. I've learned a lot and can go on without her."
"I'm so bummed, I know I got at least three of the questions wrong. I'll probably have to take the course over next term." "That means I probably got 17 right which is probably at least a B."

When we are using Mental Filtering we dwell on a single negative event or characteristic until it colors our perception of the whole picture. Let's say you've gained a few pounds since your last weigh-in. You might focus on this until you convince yourself that you've never done anything right and that all the weight you've lost previously accounts for nothing.

We can also filter out the negative aspects of things and only see the positive. This is often referred to as denial. An example would be when we decide to binge. We think about the pleasure of eating all that food but we don't consider the aftereffects or downside that we know by experience are a certainty. We have filtered out repercussions like the cost to our pocketbook, physical health, and emotional well-being.

We need to look for the evidence of our successes and strong points. It does exist. One way to help do this is by setting aside a time each week to sit down and write out a gratitude list. We can write down and be grateful for the assets we have that support our recovery and the steps we have taken up to this point.


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